She wouldn't do that, or would she?

I know what you're thinking..
What is that?
Dog hair? No doesn't match the color of our furbabies.

Barbie/Baby doll Hair? No the barbies are packed up still, and babies are bald.

Hmmmm...

I did the same when I saw this pile of mess HIDDEN in the trashcan, (in between the liner and the can)
As you know by this  post, I was feeling a great bit under the weather for a couple days. We were taken out by a sickness, completely taken down by some unknown virus, just cowardly enough to take out both responsible adults at the same time!!

I worried about 7 kids taking care of themselves while I was passed out sweating off fevers, but had full faith that the aliens teens would help watch and care for the younger two.  Our lil Monkey Princess was also sick at home with both Mr. Amazing and me all week. To be honest I wasn't even aware of the fact i had kids on Wednesday I was just that sick.

So imagine my surprise when I finally made it back to planet earth begin to try to clean the house. Everything looked normal, and when the trash was bagged to be taken out, there was a pile of this at the bottom. So nicely hidden, hoping that Mom wouldn’t find it.


Really what is it? And then slowly it dawns on me... NO NOT AGAIN, She wouldn't?!


I really should not have been surprised this has only been attempted by her 5 times now!! By Wednesday afternoon, children's Motrin had kicked in and she was apparently restless.


We have had the "talks" about how she shouldn't cut her own hair. We've hidden scissors,and tried to make it all but impossible for these things to happened. We even took Our Lil Monkey Princess to have her hair cut, when she really wanted it a few months ago, hoping to starve off another one of these moments.  I really thought at the age of 7 this was behinds us, a few moments for the baby book, or even stories to tell the future husband. when he wakes up with a shaved head


So I had to know, why? Why would Our Lil Monkey Princess who has beautiful Dark locks, that are envied by so many others, want to chop them off?? I am guessing you want to know too right?











So i asked, and guess what she said to defend herself? .....


SHE WAS BORED. She cut 9 inches of hair off the top her head about 3 inches wide because she was without self entertainment while I was sick!!!


So nine inches cut off her hair, made for 9 days of grounded from her brand new birthday present.

Next time I feel a little under the weather, I am calling in reinforcements before I'm taken down (and hiding all sharp objects in the house!)

WFMW- Looks like my hand is out of work

With the cold, sinus infections and flu season in full effect right now, it has hit our house yet again. This time  there are  four of us are sick all at once.  To make things even worse this time it's both me and my Mr. Amazing together. It's pretty miserable around my house right now, so for me to even take the time to write a blog, you know it must be a good one :)


 Two of the kids are sick along with us. Usually I can touch their temples and tell you pretty accurately what their temperatures are. The kids dislike this and often feel like they are sicker than my hand tells them. It doesn't matter  to them that every time we go to the doctor for an illness- my hand is reading the same thing the ear thermometers do within just a tenth of a point!!  They often  need more convincing that they are indeed not too sick to go to school, and with no fever(or other symptoms) will not be staying home.

We've owned many thermometers but they are often are misplaced after using them just frustrates the kids with how long they take. Since my hand method works, I've been happy to not fix what was not broken. I've never invested in a pricey at home ear thermometer. Two days ago before I was also one of the sick parents, I broke down and bought a new thermometer. (I think I knew my own hand would be too sick to check little temples)










This is not your average thermometer, I had no idea how much I would like this thing, and for under $14 it is an awesome purchase. First it takes their temps within 8 seconds. It has a comfort flex tip and a larger screen to see the temperature. The BEST part is the fever insight color changing display with backlight read outs!!! When it is done reading it will beep (loudly) and then it will show the temperature in one of three colors. (Green for ok, yellow for mild, and red for high) The kids are LOVING this thing!!


They don’t even argue with me when I tell them that their temperature is normal as they would the traditional thermometers. (being 6 or 7 a number of 98 seems high no matter how many times I tell them what a "normal" temp is) This thermometer beeps, shows the temp in green, yellow or red and I get NO arguments!!


Did I mention it comes with $10 worth of Vick’s coupons and disposable thermometer covers?

Looks like my hand has been outdone (unless I can attach multi-color led lights to blink after I do a temple check?)


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Honoring My Soldier & All The Veterans Who Serve And Are serving Our Great Nation!!

I never understood the true meaning of this day as a child.  I knew simply it meant one more day at home from school, to sleep in and play with my friends.  What a lifetime ago that feels today!!  I am so proud to be married to a man who serves in the military.  I now know the real meaning of this day and with a proud heart I write this blog.  Today I want to say THANK YOU to not only my husband but to so many brave soldiers, past and present who fought for our freedoms!! 







My Soldier, My Love, My Hero!! 
Thank you for all the sacrifices you have made with each time you answered  that call with a brave heart.   Thank you for your love and desire to make this world a better, safer place for your family & so many others you don't even know.  Thank you for fighting for equality and for our freedom.  



There is nothing that you would not do for our family, your commarades and our country. Because of your unselfish givings we live one more day in the land of the free.  

So many people call you amazing but I get to call you mine :)




HAPPY VETERANS DAY!!
   This year I am blessed to have my Soldier home.  I can't help but to still think of those soldiers deployed, especially as the holdiays are coming up.

 You don't have to believe in the war, but we all  should feel proud to support the men and women who are doing their duty as they are called upon to fight  for equality and to defend freedom. Our soldiers,  our men and women,  are so far away from home, and need our support. Wear the ribbons, send the packages, but please don't forget to pray for them daily. Welcome them home and thank them personally when you can! Let them know America is proud of their service. Don't let one soldier feel alone while he is so far from home, let them all know we are thinking of them. http://www.anysoldier.com/ Try here for soldiers who are not getting the support from the homefront while deployed. Stand up America. They need you. 
   I did not make this video but it is such a great one and I wanted to share!!

WWFMW CHAOS (CAN'T HAVE ANYONE OVER SYNDROME)ELIMINATION BEGINS

I am a victim of CHAOS in my own home!! (Can't have anyone over syndrome) It is frantic for me if I receive a phone call that we have guests coming in for the weekend. I am tossing things in places they don't need to be, pushing stuff in hidden corners, not because I am lazy and don't want to clean, but because the clutter is so overwhelming i often don't have enough time to get it done before guests arrive. So you would think that during the weeks, days, months that we have no visitors, I would organize, unpack boxes from our move (5months ago) but alas, I have good intentions but not good follow through. I'm lacking a solid plan that works. I am so completely overwhelmed with getting things organized and putting things in their place. I LOVE organization sections in stores, love the bins, labels, shelves, and I've been known to purchase quite a few of those. Buying them, and bringing them home, with good intentions, and it often starts off well, but again it's that long term commitment to keeping it put up and away that gets me every time.










Now let me clarify my house is not dirty, the dishes are done, the bathrooms cleaned, floors cleaned, furniture dusted weekly (but needs it daily). Beyond that, it starts to be a problem. Mail piles up on the office desk, folded clothes don't always make it out of the laundry room, and the kid’s bedroom-well I just close their doors and pretend they aren't there!! We have two levels of the house, and If I can keep the downstairs maintained, I feel like I am doing good!!

I've given lots of thoughts on what went wrong, and realize that what happened, I let things slide and over time that became my daily normal. I've had the motto that if my house isn't perfect, so what, I'm blessed to be able to spend my day with Mr. Amazing before he goes off to work. I ENJOY that time, but after he leaves in the afternoon, I'm left with NO time to accomplish much outside of helping with homework, dinner with the kids, cleanup of dinner, baths and if I'm lucky I can sit with them to spend "quality" time before bedtime. So I will do one of two extremes, I will clean until my bones hurt, for hours at a time or I will go to bed and forget it all! Of course I have 6(7 now) "helpers" who WERE at one time properly trained at one time to put things away, do the chores on their lists. Now I am lucky to get the get one child (out of 6) to do their chores without grumblings to the point I give in and do it myself.

Now on to fix it.



Like i said I'm OVERWHELMED with where to start and needed help. So what this is is what has worked for me in the past, and I'm super excited to have "remembered" my FlyLady. I can’t tell you enough how well this does work!! I'm even more excited to see in the years since I was once "Flying" with the best of them, there is now a online radio broadcast- COME on that's cool, even for those clean junkies, I'm sure they could learn a thing or two as well. Or Possibly the Clean Angels I envy can even help by contributing to the show, my blog, or post your own ideas to help the rest of us strugglers to come to the point with our homes and as I've learned, a direct connection with our personal life to improve!!

FLY LADY YOUR PERSONAL ONLINE COACH So check it out, and follow the links to the getting started, and take it from my past experience don't get impatient and jump ahead of the lists, do it as it's written. There are lessons there, you will find yourself loving your home, and even more importantly yourself!!

It is so easy to stick to this, (Ps there is even really efficient chore list, broken down by hot zones, etc)
















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what works for me during the holidays

This is my first post for Wednesday what works for me & lucky me the theme is  holdiays!!

Christmas is my FAVORITE time of the year!! I love just about everything about the season, from celebrating the Christ child's birthday, to spending the holidays with family, the baking, cookie swaps, big family dinners, desserts, and the smells of all things christmas. :) (I'm a scent kind of girl) I even enjoy my birthday being  just 5 days after Christmas.  I have found that being a blended family we do have a few more challenges to make the season memorable for the right reason and not for the stress of trying to do it all. With the mine, ours (and now after so many years,  we're blessed to have his too) we will be rearranging some of the Christmas outings. The busyness, and hustling from house to house, can definitely take away from the Christmas pleasures.  Here are just a few things that works for us.

1. Big families MUST plan, plan, and plan
We plan ahead as much as possible. Since I come from a large family (youngest grandchild of 23 and my oldest is the youngest great grand of 24!!) there are far too many parties to even try to attend them all!!

We usually rotate holidays, one year we try to spend thanksgiving with his family, and next with mine. Because I also alternate holidays with my ex, we do not always get to spend the actual holiday on the day with all of our kids since their winter break is divided- it's odd year through Christmas day at noon with me, even years with their dad.

Years ago we stopped traveling at ALL on Christmas Day!! We lounge around and take the day in. (the only travel is with the older three's dad)

2: Decorating in our own personal Style
Christmas decorations start the day after thanksgiving (unless I can convince Mr. Amazing to let me deck the house out earlier!!) We usually try to travel to Cashiers NC to the tree farms for our tree. There is no better smell than a fresh cut Frasier fir tree!! If it is a year where we can't travel, we will drag out the fake Christmas tree, and fluff it up a little. If this is the option, it is usually not decorated until very close to Christmas when all hopes of a real tree hunt is out.

There are multiple trees in our home. One boy's tree, one girl's tree, and this year Blondie will get her own tree in her room! The kids are allowed to decorate it any way they choose as long as it's not a fire hazard!! There have been years where they have put nothing but lights, or matchbox cars hanging from hooks, favorite dolls around the bottom, and pictures of friends, Barbie shoes, or even candy trees. It's fun to see how creative the kids can be with their tree.

I've found over the years that I was rearranging the ornaments on our family tree far more often than I wanted to. Of course like many others, the kids (all 5 mind you!!) would hang the ornaments in bunches on one branch. I could not help but to rearrange them. It became apparent the year our tree fell over, that allowing the ornaments to stay bunched up was not an option! So, I bought Christmas trees for each child's room and one for the upstairs hallway at home (at the time). We have 6 trees decorated during the holidays!!

3: All new Ornaments must have meaning
I love Christmas ornaments!! Some people have perfectly beautiful color coordinated trees. One day I hope to have a Mall tree for our formal living room (l which will be in that dream house I want) . For us, it’s a very personal Christmas tree.
Every year we try to add a special ornament to the tree that symbolizes something important in the lives of our family or in the children's lives. We have such a beautiful eclectic collection of ornaments. Some of my favorites are a small angel holding a birthday cake saying “happy birthday Jesus”, Santa with a Hawaiian shirt, (trip to Hawaii of course), Ballet girls (memorable for recitals). We collect ornaments through the year to symbolize trips, births of kids, pet additions, and even some in memory of those family members who are not with us anymore. (When Mr. Amazing was deployed, we decked a tree in complete red/white/blue and yellow ribbons.) This year we will probably add a squirrel to symbolize our move for Mr. Amazing's job as a "Secret Squirrel" and a two new glass stars to remember that this was the year we finally found the two missing links in Mr. Amazing's life. (His oldest 2 kids)
We have ornaments that the kids made when they were very young and some you have to look twice to even tell what they were meant to be. I love to visit my mom and see every year she still puts the little drum I made in elementary school. One day when our kids are adults they will have that same memory, of how important their creations were to us.

Since Christmas is my favorite time of the whole year, i could go on and on about it, but will save some for future posts!!
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It's about time

 So I'm back online blogging about the things that matter to me, trying to capture a piece of our busy life so one day I can look back and sigh, remembering the little things that seem to slip by in the daily grind. I was really inspired three days ago, and then the desire just sort of slipped away (again) or was that because  I became busy being a taxi driver, chef, mediator, nurse, therapist, and Mom to five busy kids that I  just never found the time?
 I LOVE to read blogs, and have gained so much insight from the ones I’ve read over the years, or even a good daily laugh that is often needed when I'm stressed.

My initial point of this blog (2 years ago) was an outlet while my husband was deployed, and a way to keep in contact with family. Unfortunately things in my life at that time became so chaotic not just with being a single mom of five while hubby dearest was deployed, but with my grandmother’s chronic illness, the drastic move while hubby was deployed, dealing with less than understanding individuals that were related, and worrying myself sick about the safety of my husband, and eventually the dramatic change in my life with the death of my grandma, then dealing with my wonderful Mr. Amazing, who came home from the land of hell Iraq, followed the sudden death of a young mother & friend leaving behind a 8 month old blessing, then when things seemed that they couldn’t get much worse, we were handed the unexpected death of my uncle who was on a fishing trip alone went missing & his body wasn’t found until 17 days later. All of it just became too much, seemed to leave me in a state of despair with nothing positive to even blog about and I shyed away from putting it "out there". I look back over the few postings I did manage to make public with remorse because I wish I had wrote more, even if only for myself. I wish I had blogged more about the times I spent with my grandma before she passed away. Reading the words from the days I spent with her are like a moment of time captured forever. Oh how I wish I had not been so reserved, the lessons I could have reminded myself of, the laughs I would have captured in print (well sort of), and the love I could have forever revisited whenever I wanted.



So because of the regrets of not being the open, loving person I really am, I'm back to blogging. I don't particularly believe I will post any earth shattering solution to a problem, or start the latest internet craze from one of my ideas, or even be much above normal family life but that's fine by me. The blogs I've enjoyed most are from friends I know (in real life even) and from families who deal with the same struggle, laughs, and shared interests that I do.

So sit back and read at your own will, I will take a ride on the blogging wagon again, and let's see how far the road takes me this time!

Not Me Monday ( Let the therapy begin)

 

While searching for Inspiration to begin blogging again I came across a blogger who's idea will certainly bring a whole new meaning to my monday blogs. ( and i might even get some free therapy from this- seriously,what's not to like?)

• I did not go one more week not finding a family doctor for us since our move 4 months ago.  I am way more attentive to priorities and prepared than that. Of course because I am so much better at organizing priorities, I made an appointment at our new family doctor and I did not spend 12 hours at the hospital ER WAITING to be seen on Saturday night.
• Most certainly this was trip to the ER was for an emergency and not for something could have been handled at the "found" doctor during the week before it became a pressing issue.
• I did not sleep in on Sunday morning after only what would have been 3 hours of sleep from coming home from the ER and dressed the kids for church, so that we could finally find a new church home since the move (4 months ago)
• I did not find excuses for the last 4 months on why we haven't made it to one church service since our move.
• I did not spend all day Sunday holding my sweet little Zoey Bear like a newborn (&not a puppy) swaddled close to my chest, completely wrapped in a silky baby blanket, NO not me.
• I did not allow my five children to stay awake on Sunday night  until  11 pm (a school night) to finish watching a movie. I promised 3 days ago they could watch Transformers 2 as a family. I did not play Café world on facebook during the family movie night because I was going through internet game withdrawals. No not me I love to cuddle among the kiddos, eat popcorn and enjoy family time.
  
  
   And because this has been weighing on me I am taking this time to do a back dated not me monday- today :)
  
• I did not let my heart over take my rational reasoning and bring home the cutest blonde Pekingese puppy 4 weeks ago. (yes Zoey Bear is the cute little dog looking at our pet turtle "Tootles" in blog title picture ) See she's so cute right?
• I've not felt guilty at all, that's why I did not wait to post pictures of our beautiful sweet puppy who adores Lexie on face book for my family to see until tomorrow.
• I did not feel guilty about having Zoey Bear in the house even though only 5 months ago we gave my mom our wonderful dog Molly(our basset/daschund mix) whom Lexie (our Boston terrier) would not get along with. No I would never bring more chaos to the house.
•  I did not feel guilty when I looked into dog training for both Lexie and Zoey Bear so that we don't have a repeat issue with Lexie not tolerating a new buddy. I did not feel incredibly guilty because we never did this when we promised to give Molly a forever home.
• I did not feel even worse because I know the only reason we didn't back then was because we could not afford another dog much less training.
• Last but not least I did not allow my teenage & pre teen kids to watch a scary movie while i typed this blog because I am way more concerned about how those movies affect them than I would be about having time alone to just blog :)

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

ABOUT ME

Devoted & Lucky wife to a computer guru who truly loves me and supports my many interests with few complaints. I am a stay at home mother to 3 teens (aliens), 2 pre teens and 2 little people. I guess you would call us a blended family. We are raising six kids together, of course there’s his, mine and ours, but we don’t think of it that way at all. I’m so very blessed with a large family(five of which I gave birth to). Parenting is HARD, and I’m learning as I go what works and how to pick my battles!!


I’m goofy, funny, compassionate & DETERMINED, Super Creative & Crafty. I’m a Computer Nerd & love it :) I’m a little random and like to be silly. I’m a lover of Chocolate, Music, Sushi, Cooking Multi-Culture food, Purses, Yankee Candles, a good deals, free stuff and creating computer graphics in my spare time. I drive my family crazy with my love of the little things, like swirly fonts, my lack of better organization and constantly rearranging my furniture. I might not always have the easy path through life but I strive to stay on the positive side no matter what the challenges!!

My Family

I'm married to Mr. Amazing, my best friend, my love and my very own hero. We've been married 9 years this November 2009. We have 7 kids together, and still find time to put each other first. He's a great man with a caring heart. While serving our Nation in Iraq in 07/08 I learned just how much I did not want to live without him. We are so blessed that God used that time apart to work on not only his heart but our whole family. We are not perfect but learn everyday what for better or worse really means.

Prince Charming is our oldest son (15). He's truly a charming kid, who genuinely cares about others and wants to help as much as he can. Extremely intelligent, funny and always knows how to make you smile. It's hard for me to believe he's a teenager now. He's always been a "ladies man" since he was old enough to know when he was getting a reaction with those beautiful blue eyes. Of course having little old ladies "coo" at him in the grocery store is a bit different than watching all the teenage girls do the same now. He has no idea how many grey hairs he gives his mommy.









Blondie is my oldest girl (14) blonde hair, baby blue eyes, more comfortable with boys for best friends and wow is she full of life. She has more energy than anyone in the house. Kind hearted, talkative, and very outgoing she’s a beautiful creation of both her mom and Dad. Blondie has a big heart for animals of all kinds but a huge soft spot especially for dogs. She's very creative and particularly loves photography. I often use the pictures she takes of our pets on all my online sites. It really feels like yesterday she was my baby girl.





Prince True Heart is my youngest boy (12). He truly has a heart of gold and knows how to make you laugh just when you need it most. He's extremely smart and can often be found with a book curled up reading somewhere. He’s Adventorous and perfectly happy to flow with whatever the older two teens come up with. He knows how to entertain himself when the older two are being "too cool" hang out with their little brother. I strongly believe that he will go in the field of social work, because he often in tune with just what is needed in every situation to make things better.


Princess Sassy Pants is 8 years old going on 30. She's very girly. Most comfortable as the kid who is directing the who, what and where of playtime. She means well and has a heart of gold, often a tenderhearted little boss. I’m just glad she’s not so independent that she’s not afraid to find mommy when she needs some cuddling. Very gifted, she’s like her daddy, a sponge for everything around her. She's bound to be the president one day because she has creative ideas on how to improve things and loves to be in charge.


Our Lil' Monkey is nearly 7 years old. She's the baby girl of the family. Full of Sunshine,engergy,talkative and easy going she’s won over many hearts with her personality . Of course the precious freckles don’t hurt in the area of getting attention either. She may be the baby but definitely knows how to hold her own among the crowd. She's a helper, often found nurturing someone in need. It's so hard for me to see her growing up so fast, and I cherish those moments where she still needs mommy to kiss the “boo boos” and make it better.